Weekend

Today being the weekend, it is the day for the Hat Ke topic for my Blog. Today’s topic is about the things which you can not buy with money:

1. Manners- Your behaviour/manner with others describes the one aspect of your personality. This is the one aspect which you have to learn from your child hood, your family  and friends are the the main factors from where you learn the right manners. Suppose you are born in rich family, it is not necessary that being the child of rich parents will automatically imbibe  you with right manners. Some times you see a very rude or wild child, the immediate thought that crosses your mind is that the parents have not taught the right manners to the child.
2. Morals- What is right and what is wrong for you is also decided by your family background and early education. Since early days the child is taught what is good/right or what is bad/wrong, like telling lie and stealing is  bad. But in today’s world what is bad or wrong for me, but some one else may think it is good/right for him/her depending upon the circumstances. Now suppose a poor person is job less and he finds Rs 500 note on the road, he may not search for the owner of that note but pockets the same to feed his family, the person is fully aware that he is totally wrong but circumstances forced him to do that. So definitely in today’s world Moral value changes but money can not buy the morals .
3. Respect- Money definitely can not buy respect, a Rich man always think that other respect him, no he is totally wrong. The others respect the power he is wielding with  the money he has or the position he is holding in office or society. Respect has to be earned and not bought with money.
4. Character- it is the DNA of the person. It is very difficult to change the character of the person and definitely money can not change it. Suppose with some incentives man changes but it is certain that he will come back to one’s original character.
5. Common Sense- some people have better common sense than others, money can not improve your common sense.
6. Trust-Getting someones trust or being trusted by some body is the biggest achievement in the modern world. You hear or read so many incidents that a person says that he has been swindled by his trusted employee/associate etc. If money could buy trust then the definition of the word trust would change, because in word trust money never comes into picture.
7. Patience-  It is also like your DNA, a person can loose patience easily or not depends upon his built in nature. Suppose you abuse a person, there are two ways a person will react first he may hit you back with his abuses or secondly person keeps quiet. A person keeping quiet always think that this is temporary phase and it will pass and the situation will come back to normal. The trust trait definitely can not be improved or bought by money.
8. Class- A person brought up in royal family will have different class than the person brought up in poor/middle class family,  there can be some exception when royal became a brat or he starts keeping bad company but in this case also his manners will always remain royal. Money can notbuy a class.
9. Integrity- Integrity of a person also can not be bought, it is also like a built in character or DNA.
10. Love-Lastly love, this generally depends upon the relationships, like mother/father love for their children, love for your parent and siblings, love between man and woman , love in friendship or love between spouses. I had read some where that in today’s world even love can be bought, which I totally disagree, because with money you can buy may be a companionship but not love. Many times you must have seen rich/old  celebrities are seen with very young spouses, in 99.9% of the cases the rich celebrities are with companion and not with a love of their life.

So friends, how do you like my today’s Hat Ke topic. In general , I do not write on these type of topics and today is the beginning.

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